More often than not, intending couples have their gaze fixated on the wedding day. The bride dreams of her wedding dress, and both parties have a picture of a beautiful romantic day that is picture perfect. A lot of planning, effort and finances go into making this one day dream become a reality and many wedding ceremonies are like a magical fairy tale.

However, after the fairytale wedding comes the reality of married life. While many have ideas of the type of marriage they want, only a few recognise the need to have clarity about the journey before them and plan ahead towards it.

That is where visioning comes into play. Nothing happens except you make it happen and I often say to couples that you have the power to create the type of marriage you want but you must know where to start from.

If you don’t know where you are going, all roads will look good. On the other hand, when you are clear about where you want to get to and have created a road map to get you there, you will also know clearly the routes that cannot take you to your desired destination.

It will help you to lay the foundation for the marriage you desire. It will help you put in place the pillars for what I call your own unique Marriage Blueprint.