Every human has an innate desire for love and companionship. These desires form part of the reason God created the woman after realising that it is not good for a man to be alone. The creation of the woman birthed the institution of marriage as a medium for a man and woman to satisfy their longing for physical, emotional, psychological, and sexual companionship, with love as the pivot.
Today, love is portrayed in different shades, and across various media, mostly in overly misconstrued forms. As a result, numerous relationships have been built on the wrong foundations. Many have begun the journey of marriage on the wrong foot or with false expectations. Our society reeks of the outcome of this severe misconception: divorce, separation, infatuation, lack of self-worth and dignity, misplaced identity, etc.
The sanity of any society is determined by the success of its homes, and a successful home is a product of a successful marriage. The success of every marriage hinges on many things, but the most important thing is laying the right foundation, and that begins in courtship. Intending couples need all the counsel and assistance they can get before taking the oath.
This book is designed to help you, man or woman, make the right decision on who to spend the rest of your life with. It is a toolkit, developed from my wealth of experience in relationship counselling, to guide you on the path of godly courtship as the foundation to a blissful and long marriage.
If you are a single person desiring to get married, this book will guide you on the journey to self-discovery and sound decision-making. When you come to the point of self-awareness, then you can appreciate your true self and values, become a better version of yourself, and make the right decision on who you say ‘Yes’ to.
My goal is to help you choose a suitable partner and make the most of your marriage. If you are ready, let’s get right into it!